PROGRAMS & EVENTS
AN EMERGING TALENT RETREAT
The mission of To Be and Become is to assist FarmHouse men in making conscious choices that affect their success. This three-day institute will equip attendees with the knowledge, skills, and attitude needed to create positive change in their community.
Through facilitated learning sessions and independent reflection, To Be and Become incorporates FarmHouse values in every step of the process. As a part of our Builder of Men Initiatives, To Be and Become helps young men learn how to better themselves and their chapter.
We’ll be returning To Be & Become to the Heartland Retreat Center outside of Kansas City. Participants will be staying on site at the campground.
To Be and Become is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for FarmHouse men. Attendees will join other rising leaders from chapters across North America in an adventurous outdoor learning atmosphere which includes team building and professional development activities.
WHAT TO EXPECT
- This program is designed only for freshmen and sophomores. Chapters who want to achieve 1-star status should have at least one member attend.
- Attendees will arrive Friday, May 15, and depart Sunday, May 17.
- Attendees will engage in a series of sessions and activities built around getting to know themselves, their values and strengths. Those attending will learn how to work effectively with others and how to create a legacy.
RATES & REGISTRATION
Those invited to apply and participate in To Be and Become are members who have joined within the last academic year. We plan to select at least one man from every chapter and associate chapter to attend. Brothers can apply online.
There is a $150 registration fee for those attending to cover some costs of the program. The majority of participant costs–including travel, indoor lodging, meals, learning materials, and adventure learning activities–are supported by the Fraternity and through the generous support of the FarmHouse Foundation.




